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Falling in love is the easy part; finding a truly compatible mate takes know-how. Drawing from a 10-year study of premarital characteristics that predict later marital satisfaction, author Jeffry H. Larson presents an excellent resource for couples considering marriage. Opening chapters debunk the many myths associated with happy relationships, everything from searching for soul mates to obeying the whims of the heart. Larson points to three key factors that affect all partnerships: contexts (each person's background), individual traits, and couple traits; he then shows how similarities and differences in each category lead to success or failure in marriage. By far the most intriguing aspect of this combination textbook and workbook is its series of checklists, discussion questions, and short tests designed for assessing one's relationship. Working alone or with their partners, readers can rather quickly determine the potential long-term satisfaction of their current relationships, based on the 24 key characteristics outlined in Larson's Relationship Evaluation (RELATE) questionnaire. Brief questions regarding similarity of values, communication skills, and conflict response patterns receive points that correspond to an evaluation scale. Larson concludes each exercise with plenty of clear, descriptive support material so participants can better interpret their test scores. For those who uncover a few bumps in their RELATE triangle, a final chapter offers an abundance of self-help and couples' therapy books, tapes, and workshops. --Liane Thomas
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"Here's your chance to learn more about the potential of your relationship. With this book, you'll learn about the things that put marriages-maybe yours-at risk and more importantly, what areas you need to focus on to build a lasting and happy relationship. With its strong basis in marital research, I highly recommAnd this book for those wanting to make a solid investment in their future together." —Scott Stanley, coauthor, Fighting for Your Marriage
"This book should be made available in every high school, church, and public library." —Diane Solee, director, Coalition for Marriage, Family, and Couples Education
"This book is based on the best of what is known about predicting marital satisfaction. Its style and content are unique and directly applicable to couples." —Bob Stahmann, author, Premarital and Remarital Counseling
Should We Stay Together?
Should We Stay Together?,Jeffry H. Larson,Jossey-Bass,0787951447,Dating (Social customs),Family / Parenting / Childbirth,Interpersonal Relations,Marriage,Marriage compatibility tests,Mate selection,Psychology,Social Science,Sociology - Marriage & Family,Family & Relationships / Marriage,Gender studies,Marriage & relationships
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